


In this opening session, Tyler Miller teams up with Kathy Quinlan-Perez, Gary Perez and Kelly Adams to help you claim your voice and lead yourself—at home, at work, and online. Through real, vulnerable shares from attendees (new founders, single parents, career-shifters) and laser coaching from Kathy & Gary, you’ll see how self-talk, comparison, and people-pleasing quietly mute your message—and how to flip that script.
You’ll learn practical mindset tools like “conceive → believe → achieve,” how to inventory your thoughts so your subconscious stops steering the wheel, and what it looks like to speak up with certainty without becoming combative. We’ll also walk through a 15-point Leadership Qualities self-assessment so you can pinpoint exactly where to strengthen your self-leadership this week.
You’ll leave with:
- Clarity on where your voice gets muffled—and why
- A repeatable thought-inventory practice to shift your inner dialogue
- The 15-point leadership score to track your growth weekly
- A simple reframe to stand your ground: “Here I stand, and the world will adjust.”
Homework for Next Week (Move Through Fear):
1. Journal where fear shows up (business, relationships, pricing, visibility) and whether it stops you.
2. Name the price you pay for letting fear lead (be specific—time, money, opportunities, connection).
Share the replay with anyone who needs this. The world doesn’t change when you get louder—it changes when you get truer.
In this powerful workshop Gary Perez (with Tyler & Kelly) walked us through the exact mindset mechanics that keep us small — and the practical moves to bust out and expand. Using interactive exercises (the classic nine-dot challenge), group shares, and neuroscience-backed explanations, we traced how your programming builds an imaginary “box,” how your subconscious (the iceberg under the water) enforces it, and how your prefrontal cortex (the executive center) lets you change the story in real time.
Practical takeaways (what you can use immediately)
“Pause for the cause”: breathe, access your prefrontal cortex, choose your response.
Start an Inventory of Thought journal — catch and reframe the default stories.
Write your possibility in five words, then check how much energy/time you actually give it.
Operate as if it’s already done — then take aligned action.
Homework (bring this next week)
Pick one real goal you’ve postponed because of fear.
List the specific fears and the price you pay for not pursuing it.
Be ready to share that goal — next week we’ll turn your realness into reach (social & business strategies).
Who this session was for: anyone who wants to stop being secretly controlled by old stories, get present with what they truly want, and start attracting outcomes instead of reacting to them.
Face everything — and rise.
In our final session, the energy shifted from theory into action. Together with Tyler & Kelly Miller, and Kathy & Gary Perez, we explored the real-life fears, setbacks, and breakthroughs that attendees brought into the room—and reframed them into fuel for action.
Through open shares, coaching, and business insights, the group unpacked how fear shows up in leadership, creativity, and relationships, and how to replace hesitation with confidence, clarity, and courage. Stories of walkouts, business pivots, unfinished books, and family obligations turned into living examples of resilience and expansion.
Key Takeaways
Fear is not the enemy—it’s the signal you’re stepping into possibility.
Delegation, boundaries, and self-care aren’t luxuries—they’re necessities for sustaining growth.
Abundance begins when you align your values with your actions and stop apologizing for your worth.
Progress doesn’t require perfection; it requires movement, presence, and self-trust.
Ask yourself daily:
What’s one uncomfortable action I’ve been avoiding?
What’s the price I pay for waiting?
Why not now?
This final session tied together the mindset foundation (Weeks 1 & 2) with practical pathways forward, leaving participants with both inspiration and strategy to launch their businesses, write their stories, and live in alignment with the life they deserve.